Make this your last first date.
AI-matched, verified people. Real commitment on both sides. Three real dates a month — guaranteed, not left to swiping.
- Coming soonApp Store
- Coming soonGoogle Play
The problem
Dating apps were built to keep you swiping.
Endless chats that never become dates
Weeks of small talk, then silence. The conversation was never designed to lead anywhere.
Profiles that aren't who they say
Old photos, fake accounts and catfish make it hard to trust anyone enough to meet.
Plans that fall through at the last minute
When saying yes costs nothing, cancelling costs nothing too. Someone always gets stood up.
Love deserves better than a swipe.
Our promise
Commit first. Then chat.
Men pay for certainty: three confirmed dates a month, or credit back. Women see up to 30 verified, income-qualified profiles a day, choose who they meet and commit to three dates a month. Nobody chats into the void — the conversation opens only once a real date is on the calendar.
How it works
From application to a real table for two.
Step 1
Apply & get verified
ID, liveness and face match for everyone. Men also verify $200k+ income through Plaid.
Step 2
Tell us your type
A short photo exercise and personality questions teach our AI who you're drawn to. We never show or score attractiveness.
Step 3
She chooses
Women browse up to 30 verified profiles a day, pick who they want to meet and accept a proposed evening.
Step 4
Book, then chat
Both pay $10, the venue is revealed and chat opens. Then you meet somewhere public.
AI matchmaking
Matched by AI, not by swiping.
lastfirstdate isn't a regular dating app. Our AI matchmaker learns what makes two people click — shared interests, compatible personalities and the type you're genuinely drawn to — and puts only the strongest matches in front of you.
Shared interests
Your passions, prompts and idea of a perfect weekend, matched with people who'd love the same evening.
Personality fit
The intent questionnaire maps your values, lifestyle, timelines and dealbreakers, so the AI pairs people who want the same things.
Mutual attraction
A short photo exercise teaches the AI the type you're drawn to — and it only suggests people likely to be drawn to you too.
Learns from every date
Private post-date ratings and "would meet again" answers sharpen your next matches, month after month.
- Every profile is ranked by AI before it reaches her daily list
- Matches are two-way: both people have to be a strong fit
- The AI suggests — she always makes the final choice
- No attractiveness scores, ever. Your preferences stay private
Why lastfirstdate
Designed for people who are ready.
Everyone is verified
Government ID, liveness check and a face match against every profile photo. No catfish, no bots.
Income verified for men
Men connect payroll or bank through Plaid and must show $200k+ in earned income. A financial qualification, nothing more.
Three dates, guaranteed
Subscribers get three confirmed dates every month. If we deliver fewer, the difference comes back as credit.
Women stay in control
Free to join. Up to 30 profiles a day to choose from, and a simple commitment: three dates a month.
Every member is ID, liveness and face-match verified
Safety promise
Your safety is part of every date.
Trust is the foundation of every great first date. So we designed it into each step — before, during and after you meet.
- Real identities: ID, liveness and face match
- Chat opens only after a date is confirmed and paid
- Phone numbers and socials blocked until you're both at the venue
- Public, staffed venues, revealed only after you both pay
- Venue check-in and private ratings after every date
Members-only events
Free events in New York, just for members.
Mixers, supper clubs and activity nights across the city — free for every verified member. A room where everyone has passed the same checks you have.
Free for members
Terrace wine mixer
Thursday · 7 PM
Lower East Side
Free for members
Supper club for twelve
Sunday · 6:30 PM
West Village
Free for members
Wine bar tasting night
Friday · 8 PM
Williamsburg
Free for members
Golden-hour bike ride
Saturday · 5 PM
Hudson River Greenway
- Free for every verified member — no ticket fees
- Verified guests only: ID-checked at the door
- Balanced guest lists, small enough to actually talk
- Hit it off? Turn it into one of your three dates in the app
Sample events showing the kind of nights we'll host.
Love stories
Stories we can't wait to tell.
Sample stories showing the experience we're building. Not real members.
“We both showed up, and we've been showing up ever since.”
Showing story 1 of 3: Maya & James
Simple, honest pricing
Two sides. One promise.
For men
$200/ month
- 3 guaranteed dates every month
- First 30 days free
- $200k+ income verified via Plaid
- Credit back if we deliver fewer
- Free members-only NYC events
For women
Freeto join
- Up to 30 verified profiles a day
- You choose who you meet
- Commit to 3 dates a month
- Verified, income-qualified men only
- Free members-only NYC events
Every date: $10 each, paid at booking. Both of you put in a little, so both of you show up.
Your last first date starts here.
Be first in line when applications open in New York City.
- Coming soonApp Store
- Coming soonGoogle Play